Back when I was in school at University of Wolverhampton, I always wanted to travel around Europe to see other countries but I never got the chance so imagine my excitement when I got the invitation to attend the EMEA child safety summit in Dublin. I was finally fulfilling one of my dreams ☺ .
I immediately filled out the application and submitted for a visa but days turned into weeks till it was a day to the summit and I still hadn’t gotten my passport back. I had already lost hope when my husband said “why don’t you send them an email?” and long story short I got a call to come to the embassy and there I got my stamped passport yay!!
So you are probably thinking it was just a summit so why all the fuss? I’ll tell you why I thought attending the summit was so important.
First of all it was my first time in Ireland and even though I had been to England it was a different experience, for one I love their accent! plus I think they are bubbly friendly people I also think that the stereotype of the Irish loving alcohol is totally true (in a good way!). Only next time I’m in Ireland, I would be bringing a bit of the Nigerian sun with me…I was freezing!
Secondly as a mother of two boys my ultimate wish is that my kids develop well both mentally and physically and above all are safe. Children benefit enormously from the communication and information potential of the internet, however there are many issues which need to be addressed relating to the content on the internet which can be damaging to kids.
My Boys and I
The two day summit focused on showing frontline practitioners how to protect children from online dangers. The summit which was organised by Google and facebook brought together academics, NGOs, charities and politicians to share their expertise and progress as well as new plans and products for child online safety.
The first day of the summit held at Google’s stunning office. entering into the office, the first thing I noticed was my name and names of other participants beautifully scrolling on the stairs and I thought it was the coolest thing. We were then welcomed by their friendly and well dressed staff and after the registrations we were treated to a gorgeous display of tea and finger foods.
The day started with a speech by the Irish Minister for communications Denis Naughten. The minister gave a welcome speech and thanked everyone for their tireless efforts in making sure that young people are protected online.
There were a number of inspiring and motivating speakers who spoke about various skills, tools and products that can be used to ensure that kids are safe while using the internet, but one of my favourite moments that really resonated with me was a presentation by Ms Rachel Madden (Google public policy team) she presented about a new application created by the Google team for parents called “family link”.
With Family link parents can stay in the loop as kids explore their devices, the application was designed to help parents set digital ground rules that work for the family like managing apps that kids can use, keeping an eye on their screen time and setting bed time on kids device. The application was designed for kids under 13 and it allows parents control and monitor their children’s online activity till they turn 13.
After listening to her I thought “wow! how awesome is that” I was excited about this because I had an incident with my 6 year old son were he asked for my phone to do his homework and when I picked it up to use, I tried to search for something online and realised that he had searched for the word “breasts”. That incident left me constantly thinking of ways to ensure that he was safe and responsible while using the internet.
Imagine my disappointment when I found out that “Family Link” was only created for the United States. I began to think about the fact that the Minister in his speech mentioned that Ireland had a minister for children and he also listed some legislations that were enacted regarding child safety. At that moment I realised that Nigeria and indeed Africa has some major obstacles to overcome in the area of child safety.
This brings me to the motivational speech by barrister Taiwo Akinlami, a total child development expert who advocates for securing a friendly and protective environment for children . Bar Akinlami shared his heartbreaking childhood experience and used it to illustrate why child protection should be given top priority in our societies. In his words “Children are not created to raise themselves”. His speech reflected the fact that he had a bad upbringing because of the kind of society in which he grew up in. he didn’t get adequate love and attention as a kid and that led to a whole lot of issues in his adult life.
Another focal point of the summit was the emphasis of making sure that parents are involved in their children’s online life. Like I mentioned about my son earlier, I couldn’t even scold him about what he did because I knew I hadn’t really given him the “internet safety talk”. I think it’s very vital for parents to ensure that the same values they give their kids offline should also be applied online.This is important because children look up to us as their guide in life and making sure that they are safe is our topmost priority.
The second day of the summit organised by facebook held at its headquarters. There were talks on child sexual exploitation imagery, nudity, human trafficking and exploitation. It was interesting to see that facebook has done a lot to come up with policies and tools to ensure that kids are protected on social media.
There was another very important topic of discussion on bullying and resilience by Dr Sameer Hinduja. He showed us ways in which to prevent bullying and how to build resilience in kids using activities, movies and books. Bullying is another topic that is often neglected in this part of the world, we held a workshop recently on educating parents on online safety for their kids and one of the parents talked about her son that was being cyber bullied in school and he never had the courage to tell her about it, she only found out about it from her friend’s son.
All issues regarding children should never be taken for granted because children are the future of our nation what are we as parents, teachers and as a country doing to protect children from sexual material sexual solicitations, threats, and harrassments they encounter online?
Safer internet Nigeria is working tirelessly to ensure that this internet safety message is out there, we have celebrated safer internet day for two years running and we are also grooming webrangers in various schools across the country in becoming web ambassadors. But we can’t do it all so we have put together strategies that we intend to implement to ensure the government’s participation in this project.
Another great work from Africa is that of Child helpline an organisation that helps to establish, promote and strengthen child help lines everywhere so that children’s voices may be heard and their right to protection, provision and participation can be ensured. Richard Ombono their sub-saharan representative took us through their inspiring website (click here to watch their amazing video)
The summit had no long speeches, it was simply child care practitioners around the world connecting, sharing and helping each other to tackle child safety challenges.
The presenters spoke passionately and brilliantly shared their expertise and best practice on key policy as related to child online safety which will enable participants and child care practitioners to become more effective in promoting a child protection focus in relation to the internet and new and emerging technologies.
Attending this summit has helped me gather crucial information, tips and ideas that will help my organisation and country in coming up with practical steps that will increasingly guide children’s online activity.
The speakers, the venue, the food and on-hand staff made my stay away from my kids worthwhile. I didn’t pay to attend this event and the credit goes to my Organisation Public and Private Development Centre (PPDC) and Google. I am glad i was part of such a rewarding experience.
This article was first published on medium and was written by Mbanan Mku
Mbanan Mku is a Safer Internet Fellow with the Nigeria Integrity Film Awards (Homevida) and is passionate about creating an online safe haven for kids.